Yesterday Was Amazing, Today Was a Disaster!

So, I wake up to a drunk "boyfriend," the father of my son.
Last night he told me that he was going to work in Tucson for a day and that he will be back later tonight. He packed last night after an amazing tme with just us three-tristan, him, and I.
I got a promotion from work and spent the entire day with the little family. We shopped, ate chinese food at home. We has a great time until today.
Well, last night Pat did not go to work. Instead, he went to drink with his cousin Ryan and ended up hurting his arm causing it to bleed.
So, basically domestic violence is never a laughing matter. I have been in an abuse relationship for a long time now. And that relationship was mainly off and on.
I was cussed at, pushed over a couch falling facedown, being kicked while on the ground and choked with a phone while trying to dial 9-1-1. Pat is in jail now and is being charged with domestic assault. I hope I don't get to see him again.The first few times of being vulnerable and abused were bad but I was still able to handle the situation. But now since I have my four-month-old son Tristan, I knew that the only thing, the safest thing to do was contact the police. Luckily, they did not need to use deadly force. But he did leave some bruises on me...physically and emotionally.
I'm comfortable with tell you about this because 1) Odds are, that we don't know eachother and 2) we most likely will never meet.
So, if you ever need to talk, I'm here and listening.

busy busy busy

I'm sorry for not posting anything for the past few weeks. I have been super busy with my internship. I work about 9-11 hrs a day. It's exhausting but I love what I do. :)
And my boss is pretty handsome-looking. So, can't complain, hahahahahha.

Birthday!!!

Wow, I'm officially a non-teen! Yes! 20 Years young! The day started out perfect: waking up to pee on my legs and spit-up in my hair and a smile I will never forget. Thank you Tristan for that. I hardly got some sleep, so after I got out of work, I fell asleep with Tristan. I am still tired.
The most precious gift that I received was on April 6, 2010. Tristan was my early birthday present.
Oh, and 20 years ago today, my mom was in the same situation as me; a young parent (just about 20 yrs) with little me! hahaha
Right now, Tristan is talking. I'm wondering if he is singing 'happy birthday, mom.' Wouldn't that be sweet!

So I just got done eating a sandwich from paradise bakery, delicious!

P.S.
The "boyfriend" forgot my b-day :(.